How nice am I?

I was musing about something earlier... yes, something that is of no interest to anyone who would read this... but I was musing just the same...

When my ex and I broke up, I wrote a nice letter to his mom, thanking her for everything she has done (no idea what I was referring to, but oh well, was the thought that counted), and said I was sorry for what happened between her son and I and I wished her well.

Isn't that a sweet thing to do? Yes. I got nothing back. No response. His sister contacted me and joined me in the 'bash mike fest' and sided with me and told me how disgusted she was that her brother would do this to me, and also told me some things she knew about his new girl that was less than flattering, involving her reputation. His own sister ratted him out on a lot of things and said she'd always been disgusted with Mike and his lies and stories. She also told me that right before we broke up, Mike was apparently discussing the story of how he started bringing another girl to and from work to 'be a nice guy'. His sister told me she knew something was off with his story as to how 'innocent' it was, because his bottom lip was really tight when telling this story... that was always my telltale sign when he was lying. His bottom lip would be tight.

So. His sister and brother-in-law invited me to a few things, including a party and what not.

I was confused, as I was okay with them siding with him, as that's how it goes. But. They didn't.

Does this mean there was a lot more to the story than I ever knew? Was he doing things behind my back the entire time?

Then I saw that the mother and her abusive ex husband are friends or something. This is the ex-husband that apparently beat both Mike and his sister.

Now. I was thinking. Is that not highly inappropriate? I can't imagine if I had been beat for a lot of my childhood by a parent. They break up eventually. Then rekindle their 'love' years later. I'd be so offended. Be like "um... mom? He used to hurt me... a lot.... he put my sister in a cast.... how can you be with him?"

Right?!?

Bad Mom Award goes to this mother. Or sad excuse for a mother, rather.

And thusly, I realize how lucky I am, once AGAIN, to not be with him. If his own family takes my side, then there must have been something more to the story that I didn't know about...

But. Onto another subject!!!

I like Jon. Jon likes me. He lives in Rome and is near Wyndham and Casino.... and Delta Lake. Three places I like. Jon was talking to people in Singapore and made fun of the Asians. That's a funny sense of humor. I said "silly Asians! Harro prease!"

He found that funny. Good sign? Yes. He is 31. Better than 27!

I have to go play Mario now!

Love,

Jaime Lee

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